Do you think it's wrong to look at porn? Aren't all things permissible? I have heard some people talk about how porn can be an "amazing thing," like drinking a good cup of coffee, or enjoying a hot bath. Maybe you also know some people who offer some convincing justifications for occasional porn use. They speak as if using others for selfish pleasure should be considered "me time," like watching an amusing sitcom on NBC.
However, anyone who is hooked will tell you that it is NOT "amazing", or remotely close to enjoying a tasty beverage. The difference? A cold beer, or a hot bath is not a lie. A beer or a bath actually delivers exactly what it promises. You don't sit down to enjoy a coffee, and then feel terrible about it afterward (unless you have toxic shame about the activity, which I will get to). A cup of coffee is a cup of coffee, not a trap to make you do things that you would never have otherwise even considered doing. So, I submit to you that porn is inherently toxic all by itself. And when toxic shame is thrown into the mix, it is severely destructive.
Porn is an absolute lie. Although people are quick to admit that they know it's "only fantasy," the fact remains that porn is real. If you've ever watched a movie with significant violence, you probably were not too bothered by it, since you realize that it's not real. The blood is fake, the guns don't have real bullets, and the people aren't really angry. They're just actors playing a part. But in porn, the people are real, and their problems are real. They aren't simply characters in a movie; they are our brothers and sisters whom we are watching ACTUALLY having sex with each other. Not fake sex, like a typical rated R movie; real sex. So, not only is porn not fulfilling for the masturbating consumer whose gratification is extremely fleeting; it is even LESS fun for the person on the other side of the screen, who is forced to be there for any number of reasons (yes forced; keep reading!) For this reason, porn is a LOVE/JUSTICE issue...